Wednesday, 27 March 2013

Good ting no cheap

This morning while scrolling down my Facebook Newsfeed, I met SEVERAL comments from various Friends in different circumstances, all talking about how their work is undervalued. I know I have spoken about this before, but this plague of cheapness must have an end somewhere.
What is it about the mentality of our people, that they cannot and will not give appreciation to creativity and Arts?

A young man, Steven Taylor has to plead on a vlog about his stifled dreams to go to USC, but cannot access support.
 http://www.facebook.com/photo.php?v=10151625421576719&set=vb.514121718&type=2&theater
You know, if or when he does go, and becomes a big movie producer, every Carnival he'll be invited back home to jump on a truck while the mega phones sound his name and people cheer that he's a hero. He'll be written up about in every publication. He would be awarded medals and have stadia and theatres named after him.

I quote a young woman's status that i saw this morning
 "Oh you find my prices are high do you? Well next time bring your own hairpins, moisturizer, shampoo, conditioner, (all of which cost no less than 10 USD EACH, cuz unlike some other hairdressers, I don't mix squeezy, lime and Pantene to make shampoo) COLD PRESSED hair oils, electricity, hooded hairdryer, water, basin, chair, comb, brush, hairclips, hairpins, cape and sink and you get the service for FREE!" 

How is it that people do not see the time, effort and capital invested into beauty treatments? What do you think people spend on a haircut in Italy, or Los Angeles? Often, the technicians we have here were trained in the same schools, but they must come here and be subject to people's cheapness? How do you put a price on time, care and conversation? Aside from the expertise in a field of beauty (which is the result of hours of training and practice  not to mention thousands of dollars of investment in education and tools) you are paying for a person's time, that they are spending to comfort you, listen to you share about your life, and for the time that they are with you, they are a friend! If you had to pay your friends their worth in dollars and cents, how much would you give them?

I saw a comment today that said "Every has Positivity but NOBODY has money..."

What price do you put on looking your best? How much will you pay to feel inspired to live a more meaningful life? What monetary equivalent is there, that makes you a perfect role model to your daughter, that she can go to school and say that her mother or father is the most patient, loving parent of all? What would you spend to have warmth spread through your veins, the way it does when the theatre lights dim and the orchestra music fills the hall?

The creative industry is not built on tangible products. We cannot give you a box with a smile you can glue on your face. We're sorry, but the hairstyles are not ready-made so that you may attach with Velcro. I wish, but it is unfortunate, that we don't have a pill that would give you the instant gratification that hours of research and care would. Instead, we give you ourselves. We can only offer our passion and love for what we do. We are limited to our words, hands and experiences.


Next time you purchase a custom-made dress, think about the sleepless nights that went into the hand-stitched detail. Think about the hours of careful draping that went into mimicking the unique curves of your body.

Next time you read one of those inspirational memes about picking up the pieces and going on with your life, think about the hardships that the writer had to overcome to be able to share with you the fruit of their drudgery.

When people spend their life devoted to improving the quality of yours, let ME tell you something. IT IS PRICELESS.

The most important thought I want to leave you with today is that paying for these kinds of services in not just to put money in someone's pocket, but it is an investment in yourself. Each of these professionals, is working to make YOU a better person. So, are YOU worth it?

3 comments:

  1. Steph the move from cost conscious to value conscious is something that every society goes through as they mature. China is now getting to that point. It is a waste of time for you to try to show a large audience the value of an item or service when they always believe that the equivalent can be found for cheaper. Equivalent to them is similar in look but not material, quality, craftmanship....the list goes on. You cannot FORCE ppl into making these realizations. It comes through education and influence. This is why creative industries will remain niche for now and why I am forced to shutter my business and seek my fortunes elsewhere. It's a sad reality, but this isnt happening any time soon. I have gotten into an argument with a friend over this. She was hemming an hawing over if a local designer's piece is "worth the cost" and I was like well if you asking that question you shouldn't be buying it. Lol she was offended but this is truly how I feel...u jus not ready. My advice is to focus on the people who "get it" cause they will champion you.

    Kathryn

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    1. Thanks Kathryn! I definitely understand and agree with what you are saying. It's just that little magical spark inside me that keeps me thinking that there will be a sudden massive shift in people and the world would be a better place. Alas, reality prevails and as you said, I will have to focus on those who "get it". Glad to know that intelligent and beautiful people like you are one of those!Perhaps you may act as a role model-- think you can live for 200 years and be an example then when the rest start to "get it"?

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